Wedding Seating Plan

Q: I am in the middle of arranging the seating plan for my reception, but I have no idea how to decide where to seat my guests. Do you have any suggestions?

A: This can be a difficult task! It is rather complicated to decide where to seat people sometimes. However, there are some general do's and don'ts that you may want to keep in mind. First of all, try to seat people who are of the same approximate age together. Generally speaking, it would also be a good idea to seat people with common interests at the same table. Put an even number of guests at each table whenever possible. People tend to pair up in conversation, and you don't want to leave anyone out. There are also some things which you should avoid. For example, try not to seat divorced couples near one another. It would be a nice gesture to seat guests from out of town with people that they know and like, to make this transition easier for them. Typically, the wedding officiant gets seated with the parents of the bride and groom, whenever possible. One last hint: If you know a couple that are enthusiastic dancers, seat them near the dance floor! They will likely initiate the dancing and encourage the rest of your guests to do the same. Before you know it, your reception will be in full swing!