Father Daughter Dance

Q: My father passed away about 9 years ago and I plan to have a 'brother sister' dance as opposed to a 'father daughter' dance. Should I choose a song that relates to my brother or should we dance to a song in memory of our father? I have one in mind that is beautiful and yet sad. If I use it I'm worried it might disrupt the happy atmosphere that I want at my wedding.

A: It's very sweet that you're thinking of incorporating a song in memory of your father! I think this is a great idea! Don't worry about it disrupting the ceremony! I think it will do just the opposite! I think it will just tug at everyone's heart-strings and bring more joy to the event! Besides, as soon as the DJ begins to play the upbeat music, the "sadness" will be forgotten, and your party will continue to develop and be an enjoyable time for everyone. I think this is a wonderful gesture on your part, and I'm sure it will be warmth and happiness to you, and to your guests.