Bride's Speech

Q: Is there a formula to making a heartfelt, successful bride speech? Where should one begin, what are good topics to cover? I can think of many things I'd like to say, but I am afraid the speech may end up being too long or boring.

A: With regards to your speech...yes, I do have a few pointers for you.

1. Don't be afraid to show your emotions...if you cry, you cry. Don't try to fight back the tears...they make for a more sincere speech anyway.

2. If there is someone assisting you financially in the planning of the wedding, make sure to send out a sincere thank you to them publicly. It's the least you could do in such a scenario.

3. Speak honestly. Don't make an intentional attempt at being funny or sentimental. Whatever comes naturally to you will be just as effective. If you end up saying something that your guests interpret as being funny, then that's great, but there's nothing worse than trying to crack a joke that doesn't appeal to anyone.

4. Make sure you address your family, friends, and maid of honour.

5. Don't forget the groom! When you speak about your love for the groom, try to speak directly to him, rather than speaking about him. Turn to face him, tell him how you feel using the first person. Pretend you're the only ones in the room and speak your heartfelt emotions.