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African Weddings - What is broom jumping?
Broom Jumping has become one of the most popular African traditions at
weddings - traditional and African-centered. According to Harriet Cole
in her book, "Jumping the Broom." The ritual itself was created
by our ancestors during slavery.
Because slaves could not legally marry, they created their own rituals
to honor their unions. Some say broom jumping comes from an African tribal
marriage ritual of placing sticks on the ground representing the couple's
new home.
The jumping of the broom is a symbol of sweeping away of the old and
welcoming the new, or a symbol of a new beginning.
Today the ceremony can be performed at the wedding after the minister
pronounces the couple man and wife or at the reception just after the
bridal party enters the reception area.
How to perform a broom jumping ceremony? Supplies:
Broom, Ribbon
A fully decorated broom can be purchased at ethnic stores, or a regular
household broom will suffice. Broom sizes will vary, but it doesn't matter
which you choose. If you decide to use your own broom and decorate it
yourself, be sure it coordinates with your wedding colors. Using your
own broom can also be a great bonding activity for the bridesmaids, perhaps
the night, or week before the wedding.
Feel free to use bows, flowers (artificial or real), or other trinkets
to make it unique. But don't overdo it. You'll probably want this for
a keepsake in your home. Another idea is to have a basket full of ribbon
pieces at the wedding or reception and allow guests to tie ribbons around
the broom before you begin the ceremony. This allows the audience to participate,
which is in keeping with the African tradition of community involvement.
The Ceremony
Have your host ask guests to form a circle around the couple as they stand
in front of the broom on the floor.
The host should discuss the symbolism behind the broom as it relates
to the joining of the couple and the combining of two families, and the
need for the community to support the couple. Meanwhile have the couple
hold the broom handle together and sweep around in a circle until the
host or designated person is finished talking.
The groom should then place the broom on the floor and hold the bride's
hand.
Have everyone count 1, 2, 3... Jump!
Harriet Cole |